《影响力》读书笔记
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Principle 4: Authority
The rule of authority states that we tend to comply with or follow the directions of someone who is perceived as an expert or a leader in a certain domain.
This rule makes us more responsive to requests that come from someone who has credibility, legitimacy, or power over us.
Examples of authority techniques include:
Showing titles, credentials, uniforms, symbols, or awards that indicate expertise or status
Using jargon, technical language, or specialized knowledge that demonstrate competence or mastery
Associating oneself with respected institutions, organizations, or individuals that confer authority
How to use authority:
Establish your credibility and expertise by displaying relevant signs or symbols of authority
Communicate your competence and mastery by using appropriate language and knowledge
Align yourself with reputable and influential sources of authority that support your offer or request
How to resist authority:
Question the validity, relevance, and motive of the source of authority
Seek out independent or conflicting information from other sources
Assert your own rights and interests over the demands or expectations of the authority figure
Principle 5: Liking
The rule of liking states that we prefer to say yes to individuals we like.
This rule makes us more influenced by people who are similar, attractive, familiar, or complimentary to us.
Examples of liking techniques include:
Finding common interests, hobbies, values, or goals with the target person
Giving genuine compliments, praise, or appreciation to the target person
Enhancing one's physical appearance, charisma, or likability
How to use liking:
Build rapport and trust with your target person by finding areas of similarity or agreement
Express your admiration and gratitude for your target person's qualities or achievements
Present yourself in a positive and attractive manner that appeals to your target person's preferences
How to resist liking:
Be aware of how your emotions and feelings affect your decisions and judgments
Avoid being swayed by superficial or irrelevant factors such as appearance, flattery, or popularity
Focus on the merits and drawbacks of the offer or request rather than the person making it
Principle 6: Scarcity
The rule of scarcity states that we assign more value to opportunities that are less available.
This rule makes us more motivated to act on offers or requests that are limited, exclusive, or rare.
Examples of scarcity techniques include:
Setting deadlines, expiration dates, or quotas for a product or service
Creating a sense of competition, urgency, or fear of missing out among potential customers or clients
Emphasizing the uniqueness, novelty, or originality of a product or service
How to use scarcity:
Highlight the benefits and advantages of your offer or request that are scarce or exclusive
Communicate the potential loss or regret that your target person may experience if they miss out on your offer or request
Create a sense of urgency and action by limiting the time, quantity, or availability of your offer or request
How to resist scarcity:
Question the validity and necessity of the scarcity claims made by the source of influence
Avoid making hasty or impulsive decisions based on fear or greed
Seek out alternative or comparable options that are more abundant or accessible
Conclusion
The book concludes by summarizing the main points and offering some practical advice on how to apply and defend against the six principles of influence in various situations.
The book also warns against the ethical and social implications of using these principles for manipulation or deception, and urges readers to use them responsibly and respectfully.
The book encourages readers to become more aware and mindful of their own behavior and choices, as well as the behavior and choices of others.```
Introduction
The book explains the six universal principles of influence and how to use them to persuade others and defend yourself against manipulation.
The book is based on 35 years of rigorous, evidence-based research by Dr. Robert Cialdini, a renowned expert in the field of persuasion.
The book is relevant for anyone who wants to understand how human behavior is shaped by social influences and how to use this knowledge to achieve personal and professional goals.
Principle 1: Reciprocation
The rule of reciprocation states that we should try to repay, in kind, what another person has provided us.
This rule creates a sense of obligation and gratitude that can be exploited by compliance professionals, such as marketers, salespeople, fundraisers, etc.
Examples of reciprocation techniques include:
Giving free samples, gifts, favors, or services
Offering concessions or discounts
Providing personalized or exclusive information
How to use reciprocation:
Give something of value before asking for something in return
Make your offer unexpected, genuine, and tailored to the recipient's needs or interests
Follow up with a reminder of what you have given and what you expect in return
How to resist reciprocation:
Recognize when you are being manipulated by an unwarranted or disproportionate favor
Refuse or return the favor if possible
Separate the favor from the request and evaluate them independently
Principle 2: Commitment and Consistency
The rule of commitment and consistency states that we want to be (and appear) consistent with our words, beliefs, attitudes, and actions.
This rule makes us more likely to comply with requests that are aligned with our existing commitments or self-image.
Examples of commitment and consistency techniques include:
Asking for small initial commitments that can be easily made
Using public declarations or written statements to reinforce commitments
Increasing the cost or difficulty of changing one's mind or behavior
How to use commitment and consistency:
Start with small requests that are easy to agree to and gradually escalate them
Make your requests consistent with the values, goals, or identity of your target audience
Involve your audience in active participation or voluntary choice
How to resist commitment and consistency:
Be aware of your own reasons and motives for making a decision or taking an action
Avoid making rash or impulsive commitments that you may regret later
Reevaluate your commitments periodically and be willing to change them if necessary
Principle 3: Social Proof
The rule of social proof states that we look to others for guidance on how to think, feel, or act in a given situation.
This rule makes us more susceptible to the influence of others, especially when we are uncertain, unfamiliar, or similar to them.
Examples of social proof techniques include:
Using testimonials, ratings, reviews, endorsements, or referrals from satisfied customers or experts
Showing statistics, trends, popularity, or scarcity of a product or service
Creating a sense of belonging, similarity, or peer pressure among a group or community
How to use social proof:
Provide evidence of how others have benefited from your offer or recommendation
Highlight the most relevant, credible, and attractive sources of social proof for your audience
Emphasize the similarity or proximity between your audience and the sources of social proof
How to resist social proof:
Question the validity, reliability, and representativeness of the social proof presented
Seek out alternative or contradictory information from other sources
Trust your own judgment and experience over the opinions of others
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